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  our resentment and sigh, good life is within reach. We want to live a good life in this subjective, but objective, but there is no good life, the reason is always to wait for others to improve their lives,
 
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The fourth consolation: heart do his own thing;
 
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Especially in the youth learn skills to go all out, do not get distracted. -
 
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The fifth consolation: Do not always make life difficult for themselves with their own;
 
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Learn to appreciate their own, they will have to get the golden key to happiness, to enjoy that they are not idle, appreciate that they are not conceited, appreciate that they are not self-satisfaction, to enjoy themselves more than rest on its laurels. . . Letter of interest to some of his own, for ourselves a little happy, smiling face for ourselves, there is no need to worry in life happy?
 
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Often to their own holiday, learn to find pleasure. -
 
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Sixth comfort: Do not chase worldly honor;
 
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Others recognized the so-called life-long search for things, will never lost his joy and happiness. Vulgar comments will smoke is their personality, will make their own secular pointing loss. For money money to make their own disowned for daring to make themselves right and the right, in the name of name will take their clever heist, the real me in the deliberate pursuit of being, becomes a picture of debris flying in the wind, the secular I have become terrifying. -
 
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Kitsch has been lost is true, to build confidence and have a self. -
 
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Seventh comfort: extreme undesirable; -
 
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Often because of concerns over some people, which led to his mental disorders, but because of some insensitive, resulting in their indifferent about anything. The former often find rational and painful, because too clever and bad, is rooted in anything stupid remorse. I do not know why regret things, after all, all day long sleepwalk life, living and dead is no different. -
 
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Extremes always fail miserably, look for the wisdom of life. -
 
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Eighth comfort: not too much care about other people's evaluation;
 
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Painting is not an evaluation by others, no one is talking of not being someone else. If their silence, someone will say, "shrewdness too"; own if the good conversationalist, someone would accuse rhetoric; own if the praise others, was accused of ulterior motives, will, if the well-intentioned criticism of their own, some people will fly into a rage, that nosy. -
 
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Just look at someone else's face, he still live not live with themselves, not confined to the self. -
 
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Ninth comfort: the more evil the more deep pain; -
 
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Why can not calmly life? Key is no time driving the hearts of demons. Because feel evil thought, would not rationally restrain myself, often make a parody of remorse. Because there is no time cleaning the soul the dust, those who are weak will from time to time fall into the pit. Since it is often possessed, blind eyes will make stupid, go down the wrong fork do not know. -
 
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The hearts of evil, will be distraught to evil. -
 
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Tenth comfort: Be careful not to live too tired; -
 
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People often lament, live tiring. Tired is mental pressure; tired, is the psychological burden. Tired and not tired is always relative, in order not tired, we must learn to relax, live your Chi Zhang in there. Tired heart, trapped in long-term sub-health state; tired heart, make their own lack of energy. -
 
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Do not mind too tired to learn to escape themselves. -
 
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Eleventh comfort: Each person has their own living law;
 
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The pain of his own clear, they understand their sorrow, their own feelings of happiness, and perhaps their own eyes hell, but it is another man's heaven, heaven may be your own eye, but is another man's hell, life is such a Funny, people do not always suspect in Spring, the key is to adjust his attitude had their own lives the most important, is not better than climbing. -
 
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Twelfth comfort: not to desire a slave; -
 
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People always sigh "moths", people always ridiculed "fish hook" People always joke, "fall into the quagmire." But if they think carefully, we live around, the tragedy of this desire there? People lack Tunxiang. Indulge a soul, will eventually lose true freedom! Be constantly alert to bad desires. -
 
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Thirteenth comfort: to live a relaxed and happy;
 
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Not blind comparisons with others, they will relax and not to aim too high in life, their joy will often not deliberate pursuit of perfection, he will be away from the pain, not always demanding their own free will live do not often find fault, they will be easy. -
 
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Live too tired to be painful, contentment! -
 
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Fourteenth comfort: like their will to embrace life;
 
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Blindly arrogant self-esteem, is the proud ignorance of life, blindly self-esteem, negative pessimistic life. Understanding of their more difficult than to understand others, like themselves than like others more difficult. The right to have a healthy self-esteem, frustration will face exceptionally strong performance. The temptation of the outside world is not lost self, not to deny their own temporary setbacks, always cool and objective evaluation of their own, often optimism certainly appreciate themselves,
 
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Fifteenth comfort: the use of good seeing the world; -
 
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Water is clear there are no fish, people to the police had no friends. Everywhere can not tolerate the faults of others, then everyone becomes bad, will not be able to live in peace. To look at the world of evil, the world is everywhere the broken remnant; with good vision to see the world, the world's a lovely place. His look at other people's strengths, the more look more cute. -
 
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Sixteenth comfort: do not blindly to please others;
 
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It is impossible to please everyone, and it is not necessary to please everyone, equal to offend everyone, is seeking to please others will only make people tired of, people close to nature, speculative mentality to change, time to please, down to work better, to please others is always unreliable, their only real effort. -
 
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Blindly to please others will lose self, to enrich themselves is very important. -
 
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Seventeenth comfort: a done deal would have to go with the flow;
 
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Mature rice uncooked rice has been boiled, go to the previous behavior of remorse, that benefits are not, the only sensible approach is how to properly handle things behind, do not let things become worse, spilled water is not being paid to the , has been carved wooden boat is not restitution, to know these simple truths, we can calmly dealing with the past. Remorse without any benefit, do not do worse. -
 
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Eighteenth comfort: Although poor psychological material is not down and out;
 
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Poor material is not terrible, terrible mental poverty. Down and often connected with poverty, poor people often think relations with Chi short, psychological poverty, the rich will become poor, psychological rich, the poor can become rich. Poverty-ridden with despair, will soon destroy a person's body, self-confidence, although the material being poor, but good day will come soon,
 
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Poor people go rather short, self-improvement. -
 
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Nineteenth comfort: blessing in bad trouble in the blessed;
 
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Mo was a moment of gains and losses carried away blindly revel in the temporary victory, they must be prepared and must not grown arrogant, complacent, intoxicated with victory, which means stop stop, intoxicated victory mean the loss of vigilance, life on the road to never agitated negligent, the victory is just a small road sign. To win the final victory, only the efforts, hard work, try again. -
 
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Mo was confused for the moment, who laughs at the latest, who laughs the most fun. -
 
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Twentieth comfort: It is important to live enriched;
 
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Every day is too good to the greatest happiness, happiness comes from feeling good every day, always worried about tomorrow's risks, the total erase the shadow of yesterday, today, how can the lives of wishful? Comparisons are not always the comparisons, the total fantasy that can not be achieved, how can the quiet mood today? Unrealistic things, are the source of the pain, the biggest killer of life is sorrow and anxiety,
 
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Pain from not fulfilling, enriching life, not cranky. -
 
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Twenty-one consolation: there are degrees of life should be fun;
 
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Recreational activities appropriate to regulate emotions, the joy is easy to turn endless benefits harm. Anti-matter is very few poor are changed, "Almost all the pleasure place, that is sick place." "Chess can be sent free, easy to be tempted fire.". . . A taste of carnival fun drum life is superficial, the result is often painful remorse. Enjoy a degree is a philosophical life, Queer is not limited to entertainment, involving all aspects of life. -
 
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Is associated with joy and sorrow, and joy is often accompanied by a degree will be happy. -
 
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Twenty-two comfort: for a living law may be more happy;
 
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When his great work goes wrong, everywhere are feeling the wall, whether it is necessary to change the environment? When his very unhappy in marriage, always feeling are icehouse, have the courage to break the knot? When they have used to submissive, will stand tall to say "no"? Confident, able to self-improvement, able to adjust their living conditions,
 
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Do not be too useless to be alive, happiness is comfortable wizard. -
 
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Twenty-three consolation: may wish to temporarily put aside bothering;
 
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It is a bitter life is short, why should always live in their own unhappy. Is normal in trouble, no trouble is not normal. If your mood feel good, we might see a movie, might listen to some music, may wish to sing a song, it may play a phone call, may wish to enjoy the sun. . . -
 
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Hell to trouble their minds, the first happy one music. -
 
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Twenty-four consolation: the foundation of joy in himself;
 
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Most people in life always pleasant, and placed in external affairs, attached to the secular identity, the status of all sorts of value, property, and treatment, reputation and other things that he once lost them, is a heavy blow, often lose, their the foundation of happiness and joy also will be destroyed, if they really had this way of life, then we want to be far from happy, why let other people to evaluate their level of happiness, a good grasp of their own. -
 
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Twenty-five consolation: feeling happy is happy. . . -
 
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Many are in deliberate pursuit of the so-called happiness; although some have been, its costs are enormous, many philosophers have said that happiness is a kind of feeling. Just as "Buddha" in you my heart. The feeling of being satisfied with the degree of decline, with people's state of mind, state of mind are closely related. Philosophers have said: get the more difficult, deeper love, have a happy, often thought difficult. A person always feel happy, is their greatest tragedy. -
 
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Happiness is a kind of feeling, I do not know enough, never happy.

Mercredi 22 juin 2011 à 4:42

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I - 
 
Walking in the crowd, I used to look at the people around the wrist, where it seems hidden in a part of contemporary Chinese people's inner secrets, never said the words, but increasing. - 
 
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Bracelets helps to calm you? Our hearts, and this seems just a decorative thing, what kind of relationship? The crowd, and why almost no one talked about it? - 
 
Silence, buried us what confused? - 
 
This is a traditional reversion, or a new beginning? This is because the prayer arising from subconscious behavior? And inevitable result of anxiety or help? - 
 
II - 
 
The last day of 2006, I went to the hospital to see Mr. Ji 301. Arrives in the morning, and get up very early the Jilao has been working at the table for a long time, he was doing things is: modify the already published "Buddhist fifteen about." He said: "On this issue, I seem to see some." 
 
Topic will begin from here, I did not expect, even more rampant, and continued to the end of the chat. - 
 
"You believed in Buddhism?" I asked. - 
 
"If the letter, may be less; but I admit that there are close to the Buddhist sense, we might have so many Chinese people." Jilao answer. - 
 
Next, I wonder is: fast forward to the Chinese people, now and in the future, what could soothe the inner? - 
 
Jilao told me a detail. One day, a leader to see him, talk also about the heart problem, to those who ask Jilao: Marxism and religion, which first disappear in the crowd? - 
 
The face of the great leaders, Jilao did not hesitate: if people one day will not solve the fear of death, fear, or doctrine disappear first, maybe one day. - 
 
The answer seems dull, a kind of hidden wisdom, courage and trust. Of course, "one day" was very aggressive. - 
 
And Jilao relative and talk about this day, from year's end, not a few hours, the winter sun shines on Jilao face, but also warm the house of other people. - 
 
That day, Jilao happy and calm. I and the people around the same. - 
 
III - 
 
Another day, and Liang Shuming read a book about "The world will be good," turn to postscript, Mr Leung's passage, suddenly my heart. - 
 
Lianglao that there are three major problems facing humanity, not the order wrong. - 
 
First solve the problems between people and things,, then to solve problems between people, and finally we must solve the problems between people and their hearts. - 
 
Yes, ah, from small school to volunteer work, not that they have to solve for the conduct between persons and things of the problem? No qualifications, knowledge, work, money, house, car these material things, dare to do volunteer work? After the father and mother and sons and daughters, and his wife, and his superior man subordinates, and his human friends the enemy, interpersonal problems, how can you not serious and hard to face? - 
 
But with the pace of life ahead, walked, then faintly see the end of that line of life, anything can change, life is not the situation of one-way street change. Thus, anxiety, anxiety, doubt, pessimism ... ... one after another, how people face their own heart, or that an old problem - I come from, and why away? Go? - 
 
Times complicated, busy people, and finally to face his own heart, and this face, today, become more difficult, but also more urgent. We all need answers. - 
 
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If you think deeper, even greater than three issues to face life's challenges? - 
 
China more than thirty years of reform, the first 20 years, the goal is materialized, a well-off, food and clothing, quadruple, to solve problems between persons and things, survival needs; and every individual, but also the well-being pinned to the physicochemical the future of the body. - 
 
Materialized gradually achieve these goals, but the Chinese people have gradually found that happiness does not come along with substances such as around the entire crowd, full of complaining about the sound of a high official complaints, Suffering complaints, complaints about poor, rich also complained that people seem more anxious, but I do not know why but there's no sense of security, such as infectious diseases, cross-infection. Above anxiety, fear following trouble; following are uneasy, afraid of the total above some big trouble, do not feel Gu Xiaomin; rich, restless, afraid that one day on the count of wealth; poor are uneasy with their own child's situation will change? In this complaint, anxiety and uncertainty, happiness, and finally became a big problem. - 
 
This time, the goal of a harmonious society put out, in fact, it is trying to solve problems between people, trying to make people move closer to happiness. However, in the efforts to this end at the same time, a greater challenge comes. - 
 
In a country where 1.3 billion people, how do we resolve problems between their inner? Our core values ??of the crowd in the end? Spiritual home, where? What is our faith? - 
 
Are believed RMB? - 
 
Our pain and anxiety, social chaos and utilitarian as it is not all related to this? - 
 
We seem to have everything except happiness, is not it also relevant? - 
 
Happiness has become the biggest problem right now, but also became the most important future goals. - 
 
However, happiness, where? - 
 
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Leaving aside the well where the pain is felt at any time. - 
 
The bottom line is this society continue to be broken, may have melamine in milk powder; vegetables can have a wounding of the pesticide; just uncomfortable because they will be able to take away people's lives has nothing to do with their own; for the money, you can always cheat, as long as at has been beneficial, others have only a stampede for the ladder. Ideal, was a mockery of the word. - 
 
This situation is not an individual phenomenon, but everywhere. - 
 
No way, the lack of faith, a lack of faith in society, they fear, will not restrain themselves, they will forget the ancient ancestors for thousands of years, will be to the interests of others allow themselves to be hell. - 
 
Some people say we have to hold the bottom line. But the bottom line not long ago, or the bottom line is once again free to break through, and talk about how to hold the bottom line? And defend the bottom line? - 
 
One afternoon, my normal driving behind the vehicle in the driveway of a sudden, a luxury car from retrograde, we give way to whistle, but normal driving us into a blind alley to hide, so, feeling that the owners neglect , when the car had around us, roll down the window some scolding. That moment, I was shocked: the retrograde from the car and this car is full of angry people. The owner is a young woman, same good, like money but also well-educated, however, this moment, her face angry, some distortion. - 
 
Accused at the same time, I is not even a trace of anger, does have a great sadness from my mind. Because she and I had to live together in the same era, but sometimes, we ourselves may become her. We have nowhere to dodge. - 
 
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If it is simply bad or extremely good, bad enough, but unfortunately, this is a most complex human era. - 
 
Doctors while holding a red envelope, while doing more than one surgery after another, and finally they drop on the operating table; teachers while corporal punishment of students, strongly oriented education, on the other side for many years the children attend to attend to their own home, heart flutter at work ; officials, perhaps with some side of the corruption in the corruption, not even the other side of the weekend did not, down to business is also doing well, no wonder people sometimes say: "I am not afraid of you greedy, afraid you do not officer!" 
 
In fact, it comes to our own, is so afraid of it. Ocean Flame, one side is falling while in the vapor, who is not struggling? - 
 
Right, wrong, how to evaluate? Good, bad, how to assess? - 
 
Shore, where? - 
 
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It is said that among the 1.3 billion Chinese people, more than 100 million people have as their religious beliefs, such as choosing Buddhism, Catholicism, Christianity or Islam, there are more than 100 million, say they believe in communism, and then, on the gone. In other words, nearly one hundred million Chinese people have no faith. - 
 
This requires us to worry about it? - 
 
In fact, thousands of years, Chinese people are not directly to religious beliefs as their own, in this regard, we are quite many people it is with one kind of crammed attitude, there is demand, the point of the incense with money to make a wish; became, would also like to go, nothing more. - 
 
But the Chinese people have been not a lack of faith. Regardless of culture not culture, our beliefs have been hiding in China after the cultural hybridity, and hides in the grandparents to tell our story, and hides among the Tang and Song dynasties, but also hidden in the everyday rituals of behavior among . As a result, Chinese people have reverence for nature, the pursuit of Heaven, respect for education, know enough is enough. Therefore, in China, talking about faith and religion, but religion has nothing to do. Chinese people will understand it is a persistent, but may, eventually our generation will not understand. - 
 
From the May Fourth Movement to *****, all of which were destroyed was gone, we finally became a group of no faith child. This time, the reform begun in a big, desire predictable, change our lives, but also there is no open space unbridled faith in the hearts of the Pentium. - 
 
So, those we have heard and heard of all kinds of weird things around us every day and played in each of us, is the manufacturer, but also, this is the bearer of pain. - 
 
How well will this time come to our side it? - 
 
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Money and power, the more and more like a religion, it plainly, they are closely linked with the desire to meet. - 
 
There was one of the judges, forced to watch players perform on stage when uttered with emotion: why in their eyes, I no longer see the sincerity and innocence, but only BMW and villas? - 
 
In fact, this is not what a player, but rather issues of the age. Population, the number of eyes is not the case, the dead of night, we dare not in the mirror, take a look at their eyes? - 
 
Power, remains a problem. - 
 
Cult of the individual reduced to the worship of power, but it seems worse. - 
 
I do not know day from the beginning, between the upper and lower levels filled with too much wisdom and mind to get along. Since when is leading in front of subordinates become stuck, absolutely not assertive? Number one power becomes greater, follow the leadership of discourse has become more and order the right thing to pound the table and lead the scene less. - 
 
In fact, they really fear is under power? - 
 
After careful observation you will find, probably not. Perhaps they had become more intelligent subordinates and utilitarian, if such compliance for their own benefit or at least avoid the harm, why not do so? - 
 
But the question is, who gave subordinates such implied? - 
 
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Each generation of youth is not easy, but today's young age but has a visible hard. Time for young people is to be successful, and success is equivalent to a house, car and workplace of its capability. This success can be easy to say, it is difficult to achieve, as the new three mountains, the weight of youth out of breath, and even love have become a problem. - 
 
Some youth should be romantic, not so utilitarian and reality, can today's young people but dare not. Rising prices, even people the wrong impression: "The prime minister said not, be considered general manager said." General manager who was too much, Prime Minister anxious, and this price was a little hurried footsteps stopped. Price is not the economic problem, but social problems and political issues. Perhaps the short term prices will drop some of the position of the ground, but look to the future, you will have real house prices fell optimistic attitude? Moreover, prices whenever they 三万 forty-one thousand square meters, it was kind enough to not fall down ordinary matter? Therefore, the heat of the "dwelling." - 
 
The "plot" of the alternative pop, but also the survival of exposure to the workplace is not easy, seniority after a brief retreat, the upper hand again, youth, match wits in the office can only keep it quiet, not age, but Mr. Chang Lao Li looks like. - 
 
As for the ant who, in the rising prices and increasingly difficult to achieve the ideal face, perhaps hard of hearing songs are: "The outside world is very exciting, the outside world is helpless ..." When you think the outside world is frustration, perhaps to escape north Canton, fairly quiet back home is the way out? - 
 
While romantic and lovely, but the face of his girlfriend and walked away after the contemptuous smile, romantic, in today's youth in, but also a kind of persuasive? - 
 
If an era where youth is extremely difficult to be suppressed, this time, how can a vibrant? If the crowd, young people are the first to abandon the ideal, what is the future of the times? - 
 
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Reform more than thirty years, we improved a lot, all have data to prove. - 
 
How much progress the news? And what kind of data to prove? - 
 
Of course, this data can not prove a thing, but still there are too many standards, for example, whether there is a real talent but also willing to put their ideals in this place; another example, no matter how experienced day after day the pain is still from time to time, will be in the progress of society, feel a little sense of accomplishment. - 
 
If not the case? - 
 
If the true ideals responsible journalists, always feel the pain, even in the eyes of the leadership, but is trouble-maker, and such a person, often a result of liability incurred by its own ideals and unsafe with others, then responsibility to uphold the ideals and for how long? - 
 
And if the idealists are living under tremendous pressure and temptation, into a realist; 
 
If the realists have become utilitarian, rather utilitarian turned into opportunists ... ... 
 
Hope will become desperate? Is a utopian ideal? - 
 
Of course, this is just a hypothesis. However, it is still like a nightmare, even though fictional, but the people will awake, still badly shaken. - 
 
Journalism forward, also need faith. - 
 
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Society has social problems, we have their own problems. - 
 
Coming in 2000 when the Shanghai newspaper wrote about my message to the new millennium, when I chose two words, a reflection, one is calm. - 
 
Reflection, it is easy to understand. Because survival is bleak, absurd years was over, the wounds of the past is only a cursory way to cover a little, too late to deal more responsibly, we hurry off, which have nothing to blame, it is to survive a crisis, when almost the only choice. - 
 
However, 30 years passed, survival is no longer the biggest problem, perhaps one day, we stopped to wipe the dust on the wound, apply alcohol or anti-inflammatory things, will the pain be very exciting, but Only in this way, it can really heal the wound, then we can really move forward with ease. - 
 
This is the history and future of responsible attitude. - 
 
The reason that the other key words are calm, because it is not complicated. Because comfort our hearts, will be the next biggest problem. - 
 
War era of the last century, the huge China, fit a quiet desk, and today, the huge Chinese is hard to find a calm mind. - 
 
Not calm, not happiness, therefore, the present era, calm is the real luxury. - 
 
Want peace and happiness, our hearts can not avoid the problem after all. - 
 
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Ancient wise to remind many of early into words, put there so you are afraid you do not even look at, even simply to remind themselves on the characters, open the "blind" the word is "head" and "death "the eyes dead, so can not see, such a thought, open the" busy "is the word, does the heart died? However, now the Chinese are busy, for profit, in the name. So, I do not say "busy", because, once the heart is dead, run around what is the point? - 
 
However, we still are busy, do not know why it is particularly anxious, therefore, are robbed. In the street, a traffic light, often seen when the red light go through too many people rushing to be opposite to, and stop, and other companions, he had no urgent business, that is sure to grab, which has become too much of our people a habit. - 
 
In such an atmosphere, the Chinese seem to have lost patience, not to mention make life slow down, read a book to complete the number of people left? In the past people free to write, diary, and later into SMS, blog, and now is to it, to be completed within 144 words to express, communicate and exchange have become a short and then shorter. Even 144 words are too long, many people only look at the title, there is a "title of the party." So, the next step? - 
 
In this regard, an old man when he said: the end of life are the same, no one immune to the slow, feel faster, how can the Chinese people seem so anxious to run to the end? - 
 
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In Mexico, there is a far away but close to the fable. - 
 
A group of people rush to hurry, suddenly, a man stopped. Next, it is very strange: Why not go? - 
 
Stop people smile: going too fast, the soul behind, so I want it. - 
 
Yes, ah, we are going too fast. However, who intend to stop and wait it? - 
 
If you go too far, Why will not forget the original starting? - 

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Even in old age, accompanied by husband and wife, watching TV during the day listening to radio, read newspapers, travel together with tea and chat to friends at home, <a href="http://www.cheapbuy-hervelegers.com/" target="_blank" title="herve leger sale uk"><b>herve leger sale uk</b></a> and lawn with a walk, share joy, share contented, in fact, how many children can not be replaced of. Also no one can be replaced. 
 
 
What's more, now, most people only have one child? 
 
According to the general understanding of the strong men than women, women having children, certain health than men. However, why many elderly people, mostly her husband leaving old wife go first out? 
 
 
In fact, men are not as strong as the woman thought. Their strong, because they met all the humiliation of life, loss, frustration, pain, depression, life stress and heavy life, all of Tolerance in his mind, refused to say it, refused to show it out. 
 
Tolerance mind and all of these emotions, in fact, all but one as a "computer virus" has accumulated to the end, the result is collapse, crash. 
 
Why men alcohol abuse? Why smoke? Why meditation? 
 
More reason, in fact, he has accumulated too much psychological virus. Because he is a man, he can not easily shed tears, but can not easily tell the person. He must of his wife, the children in front of their parents to make a tough guy image. 
 
And women, but even a little bit aggrieved habits will to her husband, the parents, the sisters, friends to talk to them, a woman virus does not accumulate. She will talk and tears every time, the clean-up are net. 
 
                             
 
And human, almost all of the disease, more reason for this is smoldering out. Therefore, the emotional drain out of the women love a show, often to long life. The man, his wife died in foregone. 
 
How to get her husband to live longer possible, as much as possible to accompany you to the old? 
 
Start now, now! ! ! 
 
So, you should start do something? 
 
First, when her husband returned home, to give him as much as possible to create a warm and relaxed environment. In fact, there is no important visitor, why not make sure to drag spotless? Gan Mafei to wash clothes at the time? Why must we make this the time to relax at home, which makes both Jinjinzhangzhang it? The couple two, when the grinding mouth, mostly domestic. 
 
Second, when the unhappy husband on the outside, even if he did not say, you have to go as far as possible aware, caring side of him with love, give him to be snacks, pour a glass of wine, talk about some humorous piece, the first transfer of his displeasure Then slowly look for asking. 
 
If he did not want to tell you that not even want to mention, you must not continue to inquire, he must have suffered heavy injuries at this time, a man is used to lick his wounds you can do is one word: love! Thoughtful! Gentle! Though it does not necessarily resolve the stasis and his inner wounds, but it will be analgesic and anti-inflammatory drugs. 
 
 
 
 
  
If he is willing to say, then, no matter what he said out of things, you can not complain about him at this time. You can do is to enlighten and to ease the transfer of his bad mood. 
 
In fact, all his unhappiness, the truth will never exceed the "fame" word range. 
 
Furthermore is and who had an argument, led by the accused. 
 
If your husband is most concerned about the health of the husband can accompany you to the old, you should not most concerned about her husband's fame and fortune, must have hit the end and some not, and earned death, but also can not. Earned their teeth, but also lost. Not trying to lose, will be on the other hand lost. This is an ironclad rule. 
 
If you do not mind the husband will live very easily. This easy, you just will be many surprises success! 
 
Third, the wine is not excessive. Wine field a hero, in fact, we boast the surface, he would turn away when he was a fool. Smoke, if it is not broken, do not suck as bad smoke, but must convince him to less smoking. 
 
Fourth, if you must have and old-law live with no conditions and no old-law to live separately, you must accept the reality, as much as possible-law and good relations. Because you can not tolerate her husband's mother, your conflicts, your every war, are bound to weaken the year her husband a few months or even years of life. Conversely, if he and your mother every day and not noisy, how can you do? Depressed and helpless and caught in the board for you, as will be years of life lost for sure. 
 
Well, that the above four points, the following would be much easier: 
 
If you love your husband, do not get more than those fried fried food for him. This can not be his temper. Do more vegetables and salad. So as to coax children to coax him to eat them. 
 
When he finished the light vegetarian, he also found that in the past that the old oil and water to eat a big fried food, inexplicable dizzy, listless and sleepy, and so can not tell the reasons bad state, will suddenly improve. 
 
If you want her husband to accompany you to the old, you have to reference back to her husband as much as possible, and aerobic activities. Jogging, brisk walking, playing, traveling, mountain climbing, boxing, even if no conditions, activities of a little exercise in the house, make some roll on the floor, exercise can play the same purpose. 
           
 
 
 
  
You want your husband to accompany you to the end of life, you have to protect him like you were off protecting children. Love him as long as you are that person, but not too many strings attached, you must be willing to try. 
 
You do, you will find that he will live very happy, will live very enthusiastic, great sense of accomplishment will live, will live very healthy, he will reward you. It is your anticipated. 
 
Even if he was ordinary, but he must love you, he will not go ahead, he will always be with you, live a long, long time, has to accompany you to the end of life. 
 
And sisters, when we seasoned white-haired, and when we seasoned legs and feet ache, and when we seasoned lumbar curve, but, as long as her husband by his side, you know, millions of assets, not as one to accompany you for life for your husband fetched a cup of hot tea, a few to a few tablets. 
 
When we are too old, wrinkled, the number of expensive dress and cosmetics, not as her husband gently holding your arm bush walking in the sunset. 
 
When we were only in the old rocking chair or wheelchair push shake ah, you will find that what the authority of fame and luxury, and not worth the middle of the night when the weather changes, you add her husband to open the electric blanket and soon greetings. 
          
        Why start from now and not in the future? 
 
Because a tree, the sooner the correction, the sooner it straight. Husband did, the sooner the attention of his love, his mind would have been healthy, even with the virus, your love will be promptly removed , rather than accumulates into the future. 
 
You can do this, to make his physical and mental health at the same time, because you are living together, so you will also happy and healthy at the same time urging his aggressive, you will know how to practice, to increase their core competitiveness. 
 
Sisters, for your old age will not be lonely lonely, for you and your loved ones are longevity and health, in fact, other worldly possessions in this world, then what of it? Now begin to take action now! 

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